Gone From My Sight
I am standing upon the seashore. A ship, at my side,
spreads her white sails to the moving breeze and starts
for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength.
I stand and watch her until, at length, she hangs like a speck
of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.
Then, someone at my side says, “There, she is gone.”
Gone where?
Gone from my sight. That is all. She is just as large in mast,
hull and spar as she was when she left my side.
And, she is just as able to bear her load of living freight to her destined port.
Her diminished size is in me — not in her.
And, just at the moment when someone says, “There, she is gone,”
there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices
ready to take up the glad shout, “Here she comes!”
And that is dying…
Henry Jackson Van Dyke
Regardless of what we believe, it remains true that the dead are carried by the living; they actively contribute to weaving the tapestry of our collective story for as long as we remember them — their stories, their sorrows, their joys, and their hopes and prayers for us and generations to come.
In memoriam of our blogger Spearfruit, a kind man, and a great fighter. Wherever you are now, may there be music.
Thank you for posting this beautiful poem in Terry’s honor. I have been playing catch-up, so might not have been aware of his passing for some time yet but for you. Thank you so very much. I am quite certain that if there was not music “there” before, there is now!
xx,
mgh
(Madelyn Griffith-Haynie – ADDandSoMuchMORE dot com)
ADD/EFD Coach Training Field founder; ADD Coaching co-founder
“It takes a village to transform a world!”
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I felt sad but also relieved when I heard of this passing -and I hope it makes sense. He was suffering at the end. I always loved the poem, thought it was perfect for him.
Thank you for reading.
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I had a similar emotional response. He fought so hard, but he has been suffering for quite a while. I am relieved that he is no longer.
I was formerly unaware of the poem – and it is perfect in this context. I have often shared The Junk Man by Carl Sandburg, but I plan to switch to this one.
xx,
mgh
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Reblogged this on Truth Troubles.
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This is a beautiful work, I enjoyed the read so I am going to reblog it for you.
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Thank you for the reblog. Nice to meet you!
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What a wonderful tribute for a man who fought on. I hope Gary will be okay alone.
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Thank you, I am glad you liked it.
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Beautiful and comforting piece. Thank you.
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lovely xoxoxoxo
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❤
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Beautiful. I didn’t know Terry, but thanks to you now I do. She has sailed toward me out of the mist into the sunshine. Thank you.
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I echo your thoughts about Terry. An excellent tribute
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Thank you!
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A beautiful tribute, may your friend rest in peace 💜🌈
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The first time I heard those words was at the funeral for a girl of 17 who had taken her own life. Her mother died aged 32 when she was 11 and she just never coped. The Vicar was one of my school teachers and I remember his voice cracking as he read the last line and said ‘and I know that is Kim waiting for Georgie’ …. Terry was a friend of mine. This is a lovely tribute, beautifully wrought and very very appropriate. Thank you.
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I always loved this poem, heard it myself years ago at a funeral of a coworker. I had followed Terry for a while and always admired his positive outlook. Nice to meet you.
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Hello Non Smoking Bug Lady … what a brilliant name you have! Terry was a lovely gentle and kind man and so many will miss him. The Auden fit for many reasons and I am glad it has resonated with so many. Nice to meet you too and although I don’t routinely follow back, since there is a gaping hole in my blogosphere absent Terry, and since I like your words I am going to follow you too. Here’s to a happy journey prompted by Terry 🙂
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Oh ignore my tripe will you … I was referring to the poem I posted on my piece about Terry. More haste less speed is my motto but I never heed it!!
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I just learned more about you on your “about” page. We are both from Europe, I suppose we were meant to meet here on WordPress, that’s at least what
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Kismet! I’ll get to your about page this evening and I’m sure it will be diving for pearls!
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Reblogged this on koolkosherkitchen and commented:
A great blogger, a kind, sensitive man, and a valiant fighter passed away. His fight with cancer was an inspiration for many, and his passing is a loss for all. In memory or Terry – may he rest in peace!
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Oh hell. 😦 I hadn’t heard, thank you so much for passing this news along. I’m reblogging this on my blog. He touched so many people, and yes, I’m very glad his suffering is at an end and he has ‘sailed on’. Another light gone from here, another light appears in heaven.
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Yes, he touched many. I knew he had lost his fight a while ago, like most of us, but still hoped for the best. I am glad his suffering ended. I don’t believe in Heaven, but know for the ones who do, it’s a reassuring thought.
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I’m so sorry to hear this, Brigit. Thanks for sharing the sad news about a lovely man.
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Bridget someone else posted about him this morning- I did not know of his blog, but clicked the link to his blog and sat and read about him, before he was sick, after he faced such challenges. How beautiful your words in that paragraph you wrote- I will keep those words as they ring so true for me.
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Why is it that you always understand what I try to say? Perhaps we were meant to be friends. 🙂
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most assuredly Bridget. We were..
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RIP, my friend!
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RIP Terry. 😔
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Thank you for this post.. Terry was indeed a great fighter and did so with humour and dignity .. May he rest in Peace. And thank you Bridget for this post.. Returning to blog land today I was shocked to hear this news.. ❤
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I had a feeling and it was confirmed today in the morning. His suffering is over. May we all just remember the way he was.
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Yes a beautiful soul with so much love to give.. xx
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Reblogged this on The Militant Negro™.
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Thank you for the reblog my friend.
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