I often wear black in my workroom because I don’t want to distract from the colors around me but lately, it seems I adapt to Jonny Cash’s quote more and more.
If there would be an official symbol to show disapproval, it would hang off our rooftop and I know our home would only be one of many. Perhaps wearing black can show my state of mind?
Today a blogger wrote a poem and in it, he mentioned Boycotting the Status Quo. “Count me in!” I wrote fast -without thinking- because I didn’t have to think about it at all. The Status Quo (Latin: State of current affairs) is no longer working for most of us here in the US.
Last night, cozy in our living room, winding down from a rather hectic day, we wanted to watch the news and thought we could get a few pics of King Charles’s coronation, instead, we watched our regular news unfold. Another mass shooting, this time at a mall in Texas and I felt nothing at all.
Did I stop caring, or am I not daring to care anymore. There comes a point when tears dry and when hurt becomes the norm and you accept it. Am I there yet? Are we there already?
The new Status Quo are mass shootings, dead children often killed by kids their own age. The land of the free is held at gunpoint, do we not see?
The new Status Quo are politicians without ethics and morals, sending us back to a time when we fought for all of us to be heard -and seen. Who do I fear more? The politicians who act like entertainers or the people who actually vote for them?
The new Status Quo, denying diversity, censorship of books in a state that’s obviously not in the right state of mind.
Acceptance of insanity doesn’t make it less insane. We have a militia waiting in ordinary homes, ready to step outside and shoot at people if the RIGHT person gives the order -even though they might be wrong.
My best friend, who happens to be a woman of color, made once a joke that I will never forget. The year was 2016:
“My Gosh, I am glad Obama isn’t president anymore. Now I can stop pretending to know anything about politics.”
I almost fell out of my chair because I was laughing so hard.
It couldn’t have been further from the truth for my friend, who happens to be very well informed -not just by headlines but also by her own research. Her silly statement sadly summed up how many seem to act these days.
I am so tired of ALL-KNOWERS.Be brave, say that you don’t know, and stop pretending you have an opinion about everything because you don’t, that’s why you copy headlines and post them without (your own) thinking.
We need to hit the brakes, put down our phones, go offline for a bit, and get in touch with real life around us. We need to reboot, reset our systems and restart our thinking.
Fifty years later, we still need a “Man in Black,” as a matter of fact, we need many of them.
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Well, you wonder why I always dress in black Why you never see bright colors on my back And why does my appearance seem to have a somber tone Well, there’s a reason for the things that I have on
I wear the black for the poor and the beaten down Livin’ in the hopeless, hungry side of town I wear it for the prisoner who is long paid for his crime But is there because he’s a victim of the times
I wear the black for those who’ve never read Or listened to the words that Jesus said About the road to happiness through love and charity Why, you’d think He’s talking straight to you and me
Well, we’re doin’ mighty fine, I do suppose In our streak of lightnin’ cars and fancy clothes But just so we’re reminded of the ones who are held back Up front there ought to be a man in black
I wear it for the sick and lonely old For the reckless ones whose bad trip left them cold I wear the black in mournin’ for the lives that could have been Each week we lose a hundred fine young men
And I wear it for the thousands who have died Believin’ that the Lord was on their side I wear it for another hundred-thousand who have died Believin’ that we all were on their side
Well, there’s things that never will be right, I know And things need changin’ everywhere you go But ’til we start to make a move to make a few things right You’ll never see me wear a suit of white
Ah, I’d love to wear a rainbow every day And tell the world that everything’s okay But I’ll try to carry off a little darkness on my back ‘Til things are brighter, I’m the man in black
You haven’t grown numb. The fact that you write about it shows you care. I’m completely confused by the gun problem in the US. It seems that solutions are so straightforward. They work elsewhere…
Bridget, thanks for sharing this song by Johnny Cash. It’s one of my favorites by him. Since he wrote that song, our situation as a nation has only worsened. This insanity is affecting us all.
I love the way you interspersed the lyrics to such an iconic song, and made your point so clearly. I have an opinion on almost anything, but I’m not foolish enough to feel that all my thoughts are worthy of being vocalized! And I do recognize that as much as I research to be sure I’m as well informed as possible, There are gaps in knowledge, at all times.
On gun violence, however, I’m very opinionated and I won’t entertain other points of view. To me, anything other than acknowledging our “Founding Fathers” didn’t envision 2023, thus couldn’t have assumed we need to be sighting to protect the right to own and use assault weapons is just incredibly unwilling to think logically–what’s wrong with us!! I think we could both make a pretty good list if we wanted to try to answer that question. 🙀
You are a very intelligent woman, but that’s nothing new. I like your thoughts on having an opinion and perhaps not sharing it, due to irrelevance. 🙂 I find myself there quite often.
As for the gun laws in this country. I have a European soul and now I live in the Wild West. Our friends in Hamburg, Germany have canceled their trip to America. Now the US is on the ‘not so safe to travel to’ list. While they don’t advise against it (yet) they advise to be cautious, especially in rural areas.
It hurts me and I have cried over this. The beautiful country I chose to make my home is now a place I long to leave -and I am not the only one. Quite a few older couples are planning their retirement now in other countries.
Guns belong in the hands of law enforcement, the military, and security agencies. There are some civilians that should have the right to have a shotgun or rifle (ranchers, farmers, breeders of livestock, hunters, and some others) but not many -and for sure not semiautomatic weapons.
What a brilliant post Bridget. An honest, hard, look at life not just in America but in so many places around the world. I have no answers, only questions and, if you ask for answers from those who should be able to give them, all you get is party political rhetoric, repeated lies, and glib promises.
Thank you, Peter. “Party-political rhetoric” is exactly what we hear on a daily base. I don’t understand why so many fall for it?
BTW, on my search for music lyrics from Austria I found this (for you) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4_eZiE1KBL0
My sympathies on the current Status Quo in the US. It is sad that money and politics seem to take more priority over public safety. The answer to gun violence is seldom more guns. Allan
You don’t want to know how often I hear the same statement from people all over the world. We were once admired a bit, now people feel sorry for us here in the US. Sadly our news and media is so busy breaking our backs with “breaking news” that they don’t have time to mention it -ever.
Sending you hugs. We are so sorry every time another one of these comes up. We look forward to the day when “the right to bare (sic) arms means the right to wear short sleeves. 🤗🤗🥲
You haven’t grown numb. The fact that you write about it shows you care. I’m completely confused by the gun problem in the US. It seems that solutions are so straightforward. They work elsewhere…
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You and I, we think to logical 🙂
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Haha – yes!
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A fine song from one of my favourites – and a profound post from you, Bridget
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Thank you, Derrick. It seems many of us like the song.
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Do we— WE — not see?
Or is this STILL liberty?
Democracy?!
Autonomy!?
The world is watching! Do we not see!
Thanks for your thoughts.
Another shooting … Barbaric!
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Some of us see, other’s choose to be blind(ed).
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It’s all in the choices we make. Bless you my friend. May something change and soon. Xo
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Bridget, thanks for sharing this song by Johnny Cash. It’s one of my favorites by him. Since he wrote that song, our situation as a nation has only worsened. This insanity is affecting us all.
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It’s one of my favorite songs too. Not much has changed, actually you are right, things have gone from bad to worse. It’s sad.
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I love the way you interspersed the lyrics to such an iconic song, and made your point so clearly. I have an opinion on almost anything, but I’m not foolish enough to feel that all my thoughts are worthy of being vocalized! And I do recognize that as much as I research to be sure I’m as well informed as possible, There are gaps in knowledge, at all times.
On gun violence, however, I’m very opinionated and I won’t entertain other points of view. To me, anything other than acknowledging our “Founding Fathers” didn’t envision 2023, thus couldn’t have assumed we need to be sighting to protect the right to own and use assault weapons is just incredibly unwilling to think logically–what’s wrong with us!! I think we could both make a pretty good list if we wanted to try to answer that question. 🙀
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You are a very intelligent woman, but that’s nothing new. I like your thoughts on having an opinion and perhaps not sharing it, due to irrelevance. 🙂 I find myself there quite often.
As for the gun laws in this country. I have a European soul and now I live in the Wild West. Our friends in Hamburg, Germany have canceled their trip to America. Now the US is on the ‘not so safe to travel to’ list. While they don’t advise against it (yet) they advise to be cautious, especially in rural areas.
It hurts me and I have cried over this. The beautiful country I chose to make my home is now a place I long to leave -and I am not the only one. Quite a few older couples are planning their retirement now in other countries.
Guns belong in the hands of law enforcement, the military, and security agencies. There are some civilians that should have the right to have a shotgun or rifle (ranchers, farmers, breeders of livestock, hunters, and some others) but not many -and for sure not semiautomatic weapons.
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You hit the nail right on the head!
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It wasn’t hard!
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What a brilliant post Bridget. An honest, hard, look at life not just in America but in so many places around the world. I have no answers, only questions and, if you ask for answers from those who should be able to give them, all you get is party political rhetoric, repeated lies, and glib promises.
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Thank you, Peter. “Party-political rhetoric” is exactly what we hear on a daily base. I don’t understand why so many fall for it?
BTW, on my search for music lyrics from Austria I found this (for you) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4_eZiE1KBL0
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Oh thank you Bridget. I shall use this link at some stage!
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Don’t feel obligated to it.
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No, it’s great!
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My sympathies on the current Status Quo in the US. It is sad that money and politics seem to take more priority over public safety. The answer to gun violence is seldom more guns. Allan
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You don’t want to know how often I hear the same statement from people all over the world. We were once admired a bit, now people feel sorry for us here in the US. Sadly our news and media is so busy breaking our backs with “breaking news” that they don’t have time to mention it -ever.
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Sending you hugs. We are so sorry every time another one of these comes up. We look forward to the day when “the right to bare (sic) arms means the right to wear short sleeves. 🤗🤗🥲
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😉
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